Se doms are able to draw me in assuming their Se manifests in a physical manner. It can be very attractive to me. A big issue is if they mentally can't keep up with me. The biggest issue is most ESFP's I have met, we have very few common interests. If we do, we usually don't match in the areas. What I love most about ESFP's is they are able to draw aspects out of me that I don't usually like to (such as being competative, playful, and spontenious). I in turn can help ground them and get them to focus and not need to be constantly moving. So there is a ton of potential.