So I thought I was pretty invulnerable to this concept. But now I understand.
I'm a loose cannon that does nothing but seeks impulses. Often times my body just fucking does what it wants, and my Ti is a slave to my Se, constantly looking for practical ways to achieve the desires of my impulses.
Se says: I WANT MONEY AND FREEDOM TO BE A LOOSE CANNON
Ti says: HERE'S HOW YOU DO IT
I think it has become apparent to me, now, that I need to reach deep down to my real needs and put my Ti at the controls. Now that my Ti understands that I am a loose cannon impulse seeker, my Ti needs to program this exosuit where to go. Holy shit it finally makes sense!
So this whole time I've been asking other people to tell me how to fix the problem, or tell me wtf I'm doing wrong. THe answer is that I'm not actually in control of my life. I don't understand the algorithm of my own body. So I go around asking everyone, "what do I do?" and I become manipulated and persuaded into fulfilling the desires of other people because I myself don't even know how to fulfill my own. My body doesn't fucking listen to me because I don't know how to make it listen.
So now this is making me think about how everyone else is a slave to their dom function without even realizing it.
ENFJs bodies respond to how the ENFJ feels. If the ENFJ feels awesome, their body becomes awesome. As such, they are dependant on others worshipping them telling them how awesome they are, etc. They instead need to turn their secondary function in on themself and realizing their own past history of awesomeness.
Just thought I'd share my epiphany.