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    I don't know if there is already a thread similar to this or not, but have you ever noticed any prevalence of a certain love language (quality time, gifts, acts of service, words of affirmation, and physical touch) in specific types?

    For example, my experience is that IxTx types tend to be more Acts of Service oriented, but that's only what I've noticed in people I know.

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    I don't think I've seen a pattern, but for me I'm Words>Time>Touch>Acts>Gifts.
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    Quote Originally Posted by autumnandtherain View Post
    I don't know if there is already a thread similar to this or not, but have you ever noticed any prevalence of a certain love language (quality time, gifts, acts of service, words of affirmation, and physical touch) in specific types?

    For example, my experience is that IxTx types tend to be more Acts of Service oriented, but that's only what I've noticed in people I know.
    I'm an INFJ, and I'm Words of Affirmation and Physical Touch.
    RobertCalifornia: TL thinks im black
    RobertCalifornia: shes my homegurl
    Hive: arent you
    SpankyMcfly: wait... you arent?

    thoughtlost: I am not really religious. I just like getting free stuff from churches.

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    Mine is Quality Time and then either Words of Affirmation or Physical Touch.

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    Well so far it seems like the NFs like words, time, and touch.
    7w6 - 2w3 - 8w7 sx/so


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    Yeah, I'm an introvert, so I can get tired of being around people I'm close to, even. I much prefer written communication in most cases. I think that's why I'm not quality time.
    RobertCalifornia: TL thinks im black
    RobertCalifornia: shes my homegurl
    Hive: arent you
    SpankyMcfly: wait... you arent?

    thoughtlost: I am not really religious. I just like getting free stuff from churches.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chanaynay View Post
    Well so far it seems like the NFs like words, time, and touch.
    Yeah, I think NFs tend to be more oriented around those.

    Quote Originally Posted by Honor View Post
    Yeah, I'm an introvert, so I can get tired of being around people I'm close to, even. I much prefer written communication in most cases. I think that's why I'm not quality time.
    That makes sense to me. For me, though, even if we don't talk, sometimes just "being" with a person I care about is enough. For example, I love to do something quiet and have someone else be doing something else quiet in another part of the room and occasionally commenting on something or smiling at each other. I just love knowing that they carved time into in their (usually busy) schedule just to be with me and that's very special to me as they could be spending it anywhere or with anyone else.
    But sometimes I do feel pulled in two directions because I want to spend time a person, but I also want my "introvert" time. :P

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    Huh. I checked into this once and got words, time, and touch as well.
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    I have noticed that men and T's in general seem to prefer physical touch as their numero uno lengua amor.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saturned View Post
    I have noticed that men and T's in general seem to prefer physical touch as their numero uno lengua amor.
    Seems true with INxP men in general, too. I think you lose a lot of men when you explain that "touch" is more than just sexy times, though.

    (Mine are touch, time, words, service, and coming in way last, gifts.)

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