Hey, so I have a few friends looking at the posts I make from day, think I am NOT an INFJ. I usually test weak on judging but weak on perceiving as well.
So here are a few pointers about me:
*I tend to be perfectionist in some things such as spelling, grammar, and making sure I get something to sound "right." (can explain why most of my posts are more to the point, maybe it's my English teacher in college, sometimes being comma crazy.)
*I am a highly sensitive person and can feel insults quite easily, even though intellectually I tell myself, they're joking, and it seems like only things seem to get better if it's time, or people are there to support me.
*Growing up, I never knew what I really wanted to be, but as soon as I found chemistry in high school, it was just something that was right for me.
*Being highly sensitive, I don't like to fight, but I've learned the fact that everybody isn't going to like me for who I am, so there are some things that I like to do, isn't "socially" approved by everyone, but it makes me happy.
*I have had a hard time finding "true" friends because I feel my interests are so different from everyone apart. But when I am forced into a group situation, I sometimes like to try to find something I "like" and something they "like," which doesn't work all the time, and people who refuse to express themselves bore me really quickly.
*I was never neat and tidy with everything, but I love having plans made, and I can get irritated if things aren't working out right.
*When I was younger, I was called weird a lot. To this day, people sometimes are shocked by the things I'm saying, not that I like shock value most of the time, but I really like to voice my opinion on something I may like.
*I want to be successful, but I also want friends to share that success with, unfortunately, I don't have such friends yet.
*I love one on one talking, but sometimes I can judge others and feel like even one on one doesn't make me feel comfortable.
*I'm really talkative, one on one most of the time. I can go dead silent if I feel no one in the group cares, or don't know what they're talking about.
*I like being realistic, but making imaginary situations that could only happen in real life.
*I don't like to get my hands dirty in work, I prefer intellectual pursuits over practical.
*Only sport I ever cared about was long distance running (Cross-Country, Distance Track)
*I like to seek for sensations, sometimes I am worried I lose focus on my body when I do things for people I deeply care about. (Eat too much of their food, just to "please" them, laugh just to laugh and make them feel better about themselves) Some people find me naturally funny.
*Girls have found me really attractive, and it's highly noticeable in their body language and sometimes even speech!
*I have always preferred hanging out with women over men. (I'm a guy.)
*I can't be away from music, but only certain kinds. I don't go for people people who are scared to say what they really like.
*I am very open about myself, and can be self-critical at sometimes, and I catch my flaws right away and sometimes I do something about it.
*I don't like to make people upset or show that I don't like them, so sometimes I flee *politely* when I can.
*I can be a fan of the objective, but yet the subjective quite often too. I love philosophy, but only certain branches of it.
*People say I am quite analytical with ideas and do as much as I can to find about myself as I can or problems that I can try to solve.
*I am optimistic in most things and I love finding about other's perspective, sometimes it can make people upset because it makes them think I am trying to manipulate them.
*People stay on my mind for a long time, of people I like, don't like, and people sometimes I barely just met. Especially, thinking if that girl could be a potential date. (Most of them after a while of thinking, I toss my thoughts away about intimate interests.)
*I focus on the future, A LOT. Where am I going to be? What person am I going to be like? Am I successful? Do I have the right partner? Things like that.
*I love food, music, and beauty in a lot of things.
*I tend to be "Easily entertained" by a lot of things. I don't believe only "certain" things can make you happy.
*When I feel sometimes impressed to, I make sure I let people know I do care about them, and they're lives if I felt they have been offended.
*I dislike crowds and am easily soft-spoken. I worry what a lot of people think about me, regardless of what I make my decision on.
*Personality seems like a big deal, because I want to know I am improving myself and not this "ideal" person.
*I dislike labels, I love being independent and always on the move, and always searching for knowledge.
*I sometimes can make premature judgments and find out I am wrong, and find out they are really cool people. I hate holding grudges, one of my strengths is to easily forgive others.
*Believing in God was something very difficult for me, until I felt something later on in my life.
*I sometimes make pauses before I try to say something profound.
*I try to correct myself.
*I even found later things to correct on before I finish this post, I mean seriously.
*I get jealous of how people have inner peace quite a lot of the time, which can make me feel really lonely.
*I scored INFX, xNFJ, INFJ, and INFP on a lot of my tests. I have scored 4w3, 4w5, 9w1, 5w4, and 6 once on differing perspectives of my life.
*Also, if I don't control my thoughts, I can sound like a jerk because then I start "judging" things quickly if I feel confident in my position where I am at, now. Then that mellows me out and wants me to leave people alone.
*Thoughts are consistently in my head. It's crazy or cray cray.
*Sometimes I feel more like a girl than a guy and relate a lot to having being both brained.
*People say I should be a counselor and people would go for me to solve their problems.
*I always look for the "Second Skin" in people. Finding the underlying meaning in everything.
*I am not too good at deciding on things that involve other people, good on things with myself.
Okay, I might edit later and see if I think of anything else. But, objections, comments? what?