i saw a cool video by the NFGeeks guy that argued that the introverted functions are the functions you listen with, and the extroverted functions the functions you talk through. in that sense, Fi users are listening through their feelings, so you can imagine that they are more sensitive to the feelings that get thrown at them. but they don't shape their environment through them, ie. Fi is not a function you communicate through (for that, we would use Te). so we are less likely to want to organise the feeling situation of our environment - in the way that Fe users do. instead, we respect that each person as their own feelings space and try to not interfere with it. this has been overly discussed since the first page of this thread.
so i feel that you got us mixed up there, or at least i feel like what you are saying is true of Fe users, not us.