Vilku
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- Joined
- Jan 4, 2012
- Messages
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- MBTI Type
- INTJ
- Enneagram
- 4w5
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/so
its generally regarded as a taboo to uncover the negative traits of each types when gone unhealthy, but i think lacking awareness of these aspects put ourselves in serious danger to unknown threats.
so i thought we could share experiences of how different types have gone unhealthy in your life. (and specify as much as you know about their typology since instincts and enneagram have relevance too!)
ill start with myself: infj 4w3 sx so:
i get very prejudiceful, and i wont even realize it. i judge people by their surface, and most of people get categorized as 'boring', and thus i ignore them completely, so i could focus on more interesting things. ive been attacked physically for doing this, it will continue in the isfp section.
blaming others for whatever is bothing them, inability to use Ti to see that the fault is in their own thinking. this leads to self absorbtion. which leads to distorted reality image. being both too pessimistic of others and too optimistic, thus suspectible to abuse easily. at my worst, i dont see others as people at all, see them as mere equations, or, i have too high expectations and have to get disappointed. illusion of understanding tends to lead to nihilistic world views, with ignorant unrealistic hopes.
enfp 4w3 sx so(my little sister):
she sometimes gets into this mode where shes angry at others for ignoring her, and she desperately wants their attention, this she does by doing whatever she can to hurt them, verbally mostly. also by mean pranks.
isfp:
they allow the world to affect themselves too much, not realizing that its irrational. they get very paranoid, and muse crazy theories about every gesture that people do. like smiling, i like smiling, and this one isfp interpreted that i always smiled because i thought something bad of him. he practically thought everything around him is centered on him, even though in reality it was all unrelated. the reason i actually smiled was cause i enjoyed my (another one)isfp friends company. ive also heard one isfp tell me a similar story that he attacked someone due similar paranoid reasons.
istj 4w3(most likely sx so):
i met one serial raper, he was very twisted, manipulative, no sense of morals, his only guidance in life was sensual pleasure. the only thing he cared about.
thinks of lying and manipulation as like a sport to get what he wants, very prideful of his manipulation skills.
estp:
ive never came into conflicts with them, but i see a huge potential for bullying in them. i was once treated carelessly by one, made me think wtf? and then one another seemed quite dangerous, like she didnt care if she hurts others physically due her carelessness. they also disregard other peoples health in the std section too, blindly following their lust.
entp:
when unhealthy, they stop caring about others and start seeing them as a mere game. lying is common, and manipulation too.
intj:
they start viewing people by how they can use them, effortlessly pretending like there was a relationship, and once they have what they came for, its over.
infp 7w6 so sx:
hes bitter at this country, blaming strangers for his misfortunes. shouting all kinds of insults to strangers. he also depends too much on others instead of taking care of his own problems.
esfp 7w6 so sp:
she only cares about her happiness, if she has to destroy another persons life for pleasure, she will. doesnt care about consequences of her actions at all. thinks of other people as acquisitions. like items.
intp:
very disorganized, spends all the time thinking of thoughts that lead nowhere. no focus or goals in life. thinking itself seems the purpose of life, not the product of thoughts.
istp:
anxious of people, their thoughts, existence, everything. cant seem to relax.
of types i have no experience of unhealthy sides at all:
estj's (ive heard they can be liars and manipulative.)
isfj's
esfj's (ive observed a potentially unhealthy esfj being emotionally manipulative to get people into doing things with them.)
entj's
enfj's
after gaining several permanent injuries due other people, i made it my project to understand every humans problems to avoid that ever happening again. i think this also helps me avoid being a problem myself, to others.
soo.. after this long time writing pretty much my life story in nutshell, im interested in hearing of other peoples experiences and thoughts.
so i thought we could share experiences of how different types have gone unhealthy in your life. (and specify as much as you know about their typology since instincts and enneagram have relevance too!)
ill start with myself: infj 4w3 sx so:
i get very prejudiceful, and i wont even realize it. i judge people by their surface, and most of people get categorized as 'boring', and thus i ignore them completely, so i could focus on more interesting things. ive been attacked physically for doing this, it will continue in the isfp section.
blaming others for whatever is bothing them, inability to use Ti to see that the fault is in their own thinking. this leads to self absorbtion. which leads to distorted reality image. being both too pessimistic of others and too optimistic, thus suspectible to abuse easily. at my worst, i dont see others as people at all, see them as mere equations, or, i have too high expectations and have to get disappointed. illusion of understanding tends to lead to nihilistic world views, with ignorant unrealistic hopes.
enfp 4w3 sx so(my little sister):
she sometimes gets into this mode where shes angry at others for ignoring her, and she desperately wants their attention, this she does by doing whatever she can to hurt them, verbally mostly. also by mean pranks.
isfp:
they allow the world to affect themselves too much, not realizing that its irrational. they get very paranoid, and muse crazy theories about every gesture that people do. like smiling, i like smiling, and this one isfp interpreted that i always smiled because i thought something bad of him. he practically thought everything around him is centered on him, even though in reality it was all unrelated. the reason i actually smiled was cause i enjoyed my (another one)isfp friends company. ive also heard one isfp tell me a similar story that he attacked someone due similar paranoid reasons.
istj 4w3(most likely sx so):
i met one serial raper, he was very twisted, manipulative, no sense of morals, his only guidance in life was sensual pleasure. the only thing he cared about.
thinks of lying and manipulation as like a sport to get what he wants, very prideful of his manipulation skills.
estp:
ive never came into conflicts with them, but i see a huge potential for bullying in them. i was once treated carelessly by one, made me think wtf? and then one another seemed quite dangerous, like she didnt care if she hurts others physically due her carelessness. they also disregard other peoples health in the std section too, blindly following their lust.
entp:
when unhealthy, they stop caring about others and start seeing them as a mere game. lying is common, and manipulation too.
intj:
they start viewing people by how they can use them, effortlessly pretending like there was a relationship, and once they have what they came for, its over.
infp 7w6 so sx:
hes bitter at this country, blaming strangers for his misfortunes. shouting all kinds of insults to strangers. he also depends too much on others instead of taking care of his own problems.
esfp 7w6 so sp:
she only cares about her happiness, if she has to destroy another persons life for pleasure, she will. doesnt care about consequences of her actions at all. thinks of other people as acquisitions. like items.
intp:
very disorganized, spends all the time thinking of thoughts that lead nowhere. no focus or goals in life. thinking itself seems the purpose of life, not the product of thoughts.
istp:
anxious of people, their thoughts, existence, everything. cant seem to relax.
of types i have no experience of unhealthy sides at all:
estj's (ive heard they can be liars and manipulative.)
isfj's
esfj's (ive observed a potentially unhealthy esfj being emotionally manipulative to get people into doing things with them.)
entj's
enfj's
after gaining several permanent injuries due other people, i made it my project to understand every humans problems to avoid that ever happening again. i think this also helps me avoid being a problem myself, to others.
soo.. after this long time writing pretty much my life story in nutshell, im interested in hearing of other peoples experiences and thoughts.
