This document is helpful.
Does anybody know of an actress who is INFP sx that I could look at?
ETA: According to that document, I'm FiNe, and the reason (@Peacebaby) that INFJs often resonate with what I say, seeing me as the person who says it the way they wish they could or would if they took the 'filter' off, is that I'm employing Te, which my friend says I use as a defense mechanism when I'm feeling too vulnerable, which feels exactly accurate to me, actually. That may also be why that sort of thing wears me completely out. I dislike conflict extremely. I'll fight if I feel like I have to, but it takes a lot out of me.