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    For fuck sake. I'm tired of people responding to my posts with this condescending bullshit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lexicon View Post
    I described where. Would you prefer it verbatim?
    Quote Originally Posted by Lexicon View Post
    His assumptions, her assumptions. Ours. His expectations, her expectations.
    you mean this assumption part?
    i mean we never get her assumptions, bc he hasn't talked to her yet, so we got his view on the situation.
    and from the first post i couldn't get how you can go from i don't like how she asked me to throw her bowl away to Fe/Fi divide, people who use Fi don't apologize.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DJ Arendee View Post
    haha. ok so what would be a situation in which an Fi user apologizes?
    Beats me. The realms of reciprocity are all mixed up between Fe and Fi. Where and when you give and take becomes bizarre and onerous.

    Also, were I to work off stereotypes, getting annoyed at an ESFP who asks you to do something for her is like saying no I don't like sex.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Kalach View Post
    Beats me. The realms of reciprocity are all mixed up between Fe and Fi. Where and when you give and take becomes bizarre and onerous.

    Also, were I to work off stereotypes, getting annoyed at an ESFP who asks you to do something for her is like saying no I don't like sex.


    Sorry.
    Hmm, well it was more to do with her tone. Hand on her hip and deadpan expression. I've had an ISFP ask me for favors and her tone was pleasant and I was willing to do it. This wasn't the case here.

    lol, Ghenghis Khan never did no bitch no favors....

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    Quote Originally Posted by DJ Arendee View Post
    Listen dumbass, its obvious I should have stood up for myself. But I was too dumbfounded to say anything because we've been perfect friends for the last 5 months with no hitches. I didn't post this story so you could lecture me on how to behave in society. Take a moment to comprehend this post with your fucking fantastic "Ni".
    so when did my Ni come into play?
    and i didn't lecture anyone how he should behave, i just thought it would be better for your friendship if you just communicate what kinda irks you. i mean you said you both had a good time going on prior. now you feel disrespected but don't talk with her about it? why?

    but oh well obviously there is always somehow some Fe Fi Ni conflict whatever going on in your head, if theres a problems it always somehow linked to cognitive functions then.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Castameare View Post
    you mean this assumption part?
    i mean we never get her assumptions, bc he hasn't talked to her yet, so we got his view on the situation.
    and from the first post i couldn't get how you can go from i don't like how she asked me to throw her bowl away to Fe/Fi divide, people who use Fi don't apologize.

    The assumptions of his own he describes in his 1st post.. and her potential assumptions we could possibly extrapolate from his descriptions of her behaviors in the post, can point to a possible Fi/Fe divide in terms of how the situation was interpreted on either side. She did something that obviously she didn't find offensive- rather, I imagine she may not have found it offensive since his breaking contact with her was distressing. We can assume she likes him & had no intention of inflicting pain. However, because everyone's emotional associations/reactions can vary- her behavior set something off within DJ emotionally- he felt disrespected- & reacted to that. Fe has the tendency to assume sometimes that people universally can recognize social cues, etiquette, and things of that nature. Nuances can get lost in the midst of reacting to feeling disrespected. And, like I said in another post.. introverted functions- Fi perhaps is more noticeable than others- have a degree of internalization involved.. so if she didn't find her behavior offensive while doing it, odds are high she assumed he wouldn't, either.

    I'll make the disclaimer that I'm not speaking in terms of black & white absolutes. Functions, feelings, & people in general are more multifaceted than that. Fi & Fe people can fuck up and hurt someone without seeing it.. but how it's experienced & expressed can vary. For some people, taking it apart with functions when reflecting on what happened, can help them see from the other person's pov. I'm just pointing out broad possibilities about the situation, & suggesting ways to understand what she might have been thinking/feeling at the time, how she might be thinking/feeling now, & what might help to resolve the situation, so neither party feels hurt.
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    03/23 06:21:34 Nancynobullets: LEXXX *sacrifices a first born*
    03/23 06:21:53 Nancynobullets: We summon yooouuu
    03/23 06:29:07 Lexicon: I was sleeping!



    04/25 04:20:35 Patches: Don't listen to lex. She wants to birth a litter of kittens. She doesnt get to decide whats creepy

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    02/16 23:49:45 Cimarron: she's doing drugs with Jack

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    I always tread on peoples toes and then demand they apologise because my foot hurts.

    People have hard toes.
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    "Suppose it didn't," said Pooh, after careful thought.
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    @Rasofy, good point. Was probably a test now that I think about it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rasofy View Post

    Gross.. people do this?
    03/23 06:06:58 EcK: lex
    03/23 06:06:59 EcK: lex
    03/23 06:21:34 Nancynobullets: LEXXX *sacrifices a first born*
    03/23 06:21:53 Nancynobullets: We summon yooouuu
    03/23 06:29:07 Lexicon: I was sleeping!



    04/25 04:20:35 Patches: Don't listen to lex. She wants to birth a litter of kittens. She doesnt get to decide whats creepy

    02/16 23:49:38 ygolo: Lex is afk
    02/16 23:49:45 Cimarron: she's doing drugs with Jack

    03/05 19:27:41 Time: You can't make chat morbid. Lex does it naturally.

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