you complimented her on her looks, then she asked you to throw something away for her, you did it, but it irked you and then you just completely stopped speaking with her for a month? i pick up some 'just because if find you attractive i won't turn into a little bimbo for you' undertone.
sorry but wouldn't it make more sense to tell her that you are not her housemaid and she has to functional legs so she can go and throw that stuff away by herself, if it irks you that much, instead of saying nothing, stop talking with her for a month and then kinda want an excuse. i mean excuse for what? sorry but if someone would do that with me, i wouldn't even have a clue what's fucking going on and if this person would demand an apology for something minor that happened like a a month ago sorry but NO
i think you just don't like being shoved into the bimbo - nice - guy corner (like some steoreotypic lad who does everything for a girl bc he finds her attractive) and you assume that she does that with you. but nobody really knows bc you haven't talked with her about it
and you think this has anything to do with Fi and Fe or Feeling whatsoever?
you can't be serious