I love ESFJs. They are my favorite. I ultimately want to end up with an ESFJ. They are really passionate, sweet, and innocent. They have really big hearts and they can never bring themselves to do love just for the carnal lust of it, even if that is their intention they never follow through. They see love as very special and intense, as if it's a separate and foreign world that they are really uncertain about and vulnerable in but secretly thrilled by. The only thing I don't like about ESFJs is how busy they are and how they can sometimes be kind of dumb about liking what's popular because it's popular. Also we don't always have much to talk about, but that doesn't make me like them any less.
INTPs I find arrogant and annoying. They always have these big ideas that they are loudly into and they always think they know exactly everything that is happening. They are overly cynical and depressive and think they are cool because they like esoteric shit. I think if I got in a relationship with an INTP female we would be highly competitive mentally and there would be a lot of anger that came about just by the fact that we disagreed on some lofty theory. Maybe it could be resolved in fiery bedroom passion sessions. I dunno.
NJ types are my least favorite, maybe because I grew up in a highly NJ environment and I resent them now. I find them boring and dry. I hate their passion for high culture and name dropping and I hate their Je professional orientation. They are pretentious snobs.
ENTJs are too much for me to handle. I wouldn't even want to have to tame one of them. I do have a certain admiration for them though.
INxJs are serious and boring and never say anything funny, at least not funny enough to crack anyone up. They also give this unarousing sense of ideological (as opposed to physical) practicality that makes romance really unexciting to me, even imprisoning.
ENFJs' interests are so far removed from my own as to not even register. I avoid them.
ISTPs are crude and unattractive to me. They are like dudes. I like my women feminine and girly.
IxFPs are timid and excessively weird to me. They just seem kind of dopey and floppy, or self absorbed. They are too passive and mushy. Too fragile. Almost humorless.
ESxPs are hardly even real to me, I don't tend to associate with them because I just don't think we have much in common. Honestly I see them as kind of trashy in their behavior. Too much physicality, too flashy. I couldn't keep up if I wanted to.
ISFJs are ok, but too quiet and serious for me. At their best they are neither quiet nor serious, but they are certainly not always at their best. I don't like the passive aggressive moodiness they can display. I'd rather have an ESFJ who, when she gets upset about something, is a lot more heart-on-sleeve and endearing.
ISTJs, like ISTPs, are a bit manly for my taste (NT women are as well to a lesser extent), but I actually do have more of a soft spot for them. They aren't as blunt and hedonistic as the ISTPs. I see them as brave because they humbly defy their gender stereotype and they have big hearts and firm principles.
ESTJs are not people I get tend to get along with very well.
Oops almost forgot the ENPs!
ENFPs, I think, would be too flighty and nutty for me, and would ultimately strike me as annoying and hollow. But maybe not! I could see exciting, hilarious times with one of them. I think they'd be a bit of a pain to tame.
ENTPs are kind of a wildcard. I think they would be really funny, insightful, and creative, but perhaps a bit too esoteric, and like other female T types, not particularly sexual to me.
Anyone else brave enough to talk this talk? If I bashed your type, take it with a grain of salt. None of this stuff is particularly firm. I think anything could happen, but I won't deny the fact that I have my preconceptions. Just saying, try not to take this too seriously and I think we'll all have fun. Remember, what one person thinks is not at all what everyone else thinks. People have their preferences, and some will always appreciate you and some won't.