I screwed up.
It turns out that the word I'm looking for is actually histronic, not narcisstic.
This sounds closer to the behavior I'm talking about:
That's HPD. Not accusing anyone in particular of being that, I'm just thinking of people who lean sort of close to that.*is uncomfortable in situations in which he or she is not the center of attention
*interaction with others is often characterized by inappropriate sexually seductive or provocative behavior
*displays rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotions
*consistently uses physical appearance to draw attention to self
*has a style of speech that is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detail
*shows self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion
*is suggestible, i.e., easily influenced by others or circumstances
*considers relationships to be more intimate than they actually are
Meanwhile, this is NPD.
This is, unfortunately, overlaps a little more with me.Takes advantage of others to reach own goals
Expects to be recognized as superior and special, without superior accomplishments
Expects constant attention, admiration and positive reinforcement from others
Envies others and believes others envy him
Is preoccupied with thoughts and fantasies of great success, enormous attractiveness, power, intelligence
Lacks the ability to empathize with the feelings or desires of others
Is arrogant in attitudes and behavior
Has expectations of special treatment that are unrealistic
I'm in agreement with Salome, then.
I'll need to do this again.