This isn't about relationships. What I mean is just "their lives in general". If I look back over my 25 year history, I'm able to piece together little 1 to 3 year windows with separate EVERYTHING. School majors, job industries, social circles, life philosophies, hobbies, the place I live, the state I live in, the friends I keep.
I mean in the moments, I just know no other way than to always do what I want to do. I'm not a follower, but I'm also not really a fan of organizing/managing other people's interests either. So I've found it really easy to discard things in little 1-3 year periods repeatedly throughout my life:
Hobbies change (over say a 15 year period): sports team A one year, sports team B another, music instrument for a few after, stock market stuff for awhile, school work (yes really), excercise method A, then a different exercise method, then moved onto teaching myself a language, moved on to meditation/hypnosis, and now I'm really into movies... But like imagine all of those changes that were just in my "hobbies" category but within the city I live in, the friends I keep, the way I live my life, my careers and throughout my whole life it's just always constant change! I mean looking back I couldn't have done it any other way, I just reach a point where I make a change. I've changed jobs about 7 times in 4 years. I've changed friends every few years . Etc etc etc
So do we Ne people ever settle? Im having a moment of clarity this evening wondering if I'm going to have the same amount of voluntary changes in all areas in the next 25 years...