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    Quote Originally Posted by KDude View Post
    This is retarded. Why do I even come to this site anymore? Can you figure out the equation to that?
    a boring life plus a psychology forum = .. Psychology forum addiction =)

    Quote Originally Posted by bologna View Post
    Well, there's e.g. this

    and this:


    What do I think personally? Well,
    thats nonsense rambling, ever spent time with an isfp? Only an estj would have all the weird items they constantly ask if you have, like i would sacrifice my personal hygiene if i had.

    Quote Originally Posted by Standuble View Post
    You could solve this problem ISTP style and go out and rob a bank and get caught whilst in possession of drugs. Then you can play an exciting game of "dodge the prison shower daddy" twice a day for several years! What fun! Truly an exciting decade you could enjoy if you make the right decisions.

    As for the topic creator:

    Did you create this before or after you consumed the mushrooms? It quite clearly is far too simplistic an equation, taking no heed to the fooking huge number of variables that exist in attraction. If the equation was as simplistic as you claim, then surely you would have an enormous number of soul mates that exist. There is no guarantee you will even like a person who fits that criteria.
    a person who fits my criteria will act exactly the way i want my perfect other to act, and has exactly the mental resources and similar goal to life as i with an approach which happens to complete mine, and ill love anyone whom i find useful to myself, so then it would equate id love one like this a plenty.
    Whenever i meet people who are close to it, i love the parts which are but then they never have quite had it all.

    Quote Originally Posted by LunaLuminosity View Post
    I get what you are saying, and I'd agree with it
    about halfway.


    The MBTI part, I'd say that works for the Perception-Doms, but for the Judging-Doms it would instead be AAAA+BBAB.

    .....and the thought on gender might hold if you are talking more like Gender-Stereotype, but with a broader concept of gender it doesn't quite hold up.
    its about the libido, females also biologically have _higher_ self communication abilities than males, leaveng males feeling too dry for me.

    Quote Originally Posted by KDude View Post
    You should start a dating site.
    yeah, except people with Nx + Fx types arent good at self typing..
    healthiness is all about appreciating other peoples inferior function. its like the sore spot no one ever notices, but we desperately wish they did, and if you focus on doing that, youll have many friends. and also learn to appreciate your own inferior function, others wont find it stupid if you show them how cool it is.

    INTJ 4w3 Sp Sx. (i dont believe in tritype. i do believe in learning traits from others.)

    mistakes happen. expect them, and grow from them. look for them, and avoid them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vilku View Post
    those roles i presented are soul level in depth, not charasteristics.
    Can you explain what "soul level" is? That is not a self-obvious term, so it's not clear what you mean.

    And this equation isnt entirely based on heart, but also mind analyzing what accounts for most satisfying results, like the same gender dismissing, its not something you notice easily, but it definately ruins it long term wise.
    Satisfying results for whom? You?

    Aka why ive dismissed same gender long term options for myself, even if everything else was on spot, that one soul level flaw would be haunting in the back of my mind for eternity.
    This isn't making sense either. What is the soul level flaw you're referring to? You dismissed a same-sex relationship for yourself, okay, so I get that much.

    ts something ive been pondering. Why do people go for those relationships?
    What relationships? Failed relationships? Those relationships haven't failed yet, so obviously they think the relationship can meet their needs and learn later it won't. So in the short-term or on the surface, it's obvious that the relationship meets a need in them... even if that need ends up being false or less important than another deeper need.

    .Maybe those who pick these relationships just never even knew what could be so they take the short straws.
    They take what seems best to them at the time. That is what we ALL do, as none of us know if what we current think is right is actually wrong and we're just ignorant of what is better.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vilku View Post
    thats nonsense rambling, ever spent time with an isfp?
    I dated one. I realized that it wasn't my cup of tea.

    I'm but one data point, but I seriously doubt that the overall stats hold up.

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    @Jennifer

    "Can you explain what "soul level" is? That is not a self-obvious term, so it's not clear what you mean."

    As in physical brain difference. And thus dictating your very "soul".

    "Satisfying results for whom? You?"

    For everyone, my intent is to have no bias so i can see clearly what truly is the most satisfying rather than chasing illusions like majority of us mortals.

    "This isn't making sense either. What is the soul level flaw you're referring to? You dismissed a same-sex relationship for yourself, okay, so I get that much."

    Same gender relationship appeal is entirely in imagination, theres nothing that makes it different for any better, except, theres difference which makes it worse for everyone. And this is a truth of our specie. And to be clear, i do find the idea fascinating, only im dissatisfied with reality not living up to the imagination.

    Say, when males reach 8 weeks in their mothers womb, nature makes us mentally handicapped and thats the male female brain level difference im talking of. Its designed so each compensates the other, thus our nature isnt allowed to function properly if we mate with same gender.

    "What relationships? Failed relationships? Those relationships haven't failed yet, so obviously they think the relationship can meet their needs and learn later it won't. So in the short-term or on the surface, it's obvious that the relationship meets a need in them... even if that need ends up being false or less important than another deeper need."

    just cause people think its a good idea doesnt make it one. One example: AAAA + ABBA relationships are favoured by many, but as i observe this sexual relationship represent more like friendship than real mates, and these always fail in the end cause they werent made for each other.

    "They take what seems best to them at the time. That is what we ALL do, as none of us know if what we current think is right is actually wrong and we're just ignorant of what is better."

    or you could study and become aware like me. Ive had enough mistakes due ignorance, ill accept no more of that.

    You know, thats the fascinating thing about life, its possible to learn from the failings of _others_ too. You have only one life, and i suggest to not spend it failing.
    healthiness is all about appreciating other peoples inferior function. its like the sore spot no one ever notices, but we desperately wish they did, and if you focus on doing that, youll have many friends. and also learn to appreciate your own inferior function, others wont find it stupid if you show them how cool it is.

    INTJ 4w3 Sp Sx. (i dont believe in tritype. i do believe in learning traits from others.)

    mistakes happen. expect them, and grow from them. look for them, and avoid them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vilku View Post
    thats right, you read the title right, i think ive figured it out.

    Considering if youve typed yourself all correctly, then i predict your soulmate is..

    Mbti: AAAA + BABB
    instincts: Xy Zy + Wy Xy or Zy Wy depending which feels more appealing.
    Enneagram: XwY + YwX
    gender: male + female (females are more attuned to minds integration and feelings no matter type while males tend to have disintegrated minds, thus disconnected from feelings, this creates the roles of females helping males in this section while same gender males would find the other not helpful in this way and females the other as not needing their special help, so yeah im saying theres psychological blockage for same gender relationships ever feeling fulfilling, sadly.)

    thats my results after analyzing by both my mind and scanning each options for what attributes ive found the closest to my heart, then just combining them together for the virtual representation of perfect fit.

    I would also like to mention that same mbti type relationships can be fulfilling, but there will always be that lingering thought nagging you its not quite perfect.

    Well.. These are my results for dwelling into the realm of psychology, anyone has anything to say?
    I would also say there are six types of cultures, each dominated by their respectable instinct, but thats kinda off topic and for fine tuning your life into culture of your instinct. Ahh, isnt it nice how psychology helps in finding a more fulfilling path to live your life with? hHhmniyh!
    Are you sure that you are an INFJ, because your posts seem INTP as hell?

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Great One View Post
    Are you sure that you are an INFJ, because your posts seem INTP as hell?
    I already told them this. Don't bother.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KDude View Post
    I already told them this. Don't bother.
    So you also agree that his posts seem Ti dom as hell?

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Great One View Post
    So you also agree that his posts seem Ti dom as hell?
    Ti and Ne specifically. Se wouldn't abstract people into models or come to conclusions with thought experiments. Se experiences (and often experiences things anew).

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    Quote Originally Posted by KDude View Post
    Ti and Ne specifically. Se wouldn't abstract people into models or come to conclusions with thought experiments. Se experiences (and often experiences things anew).
    Not even one with good tertiary Ni?

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Great One View Post
    Not even one with good tertiary Ni?
    Ni helps me see where shit is going to hit the fan, sometimes.. but it's something I wish to shut out personally, more often than not. It's difficult to trust, except when it's overwhelming.

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