Oh really? But you identify as INFJ? Could you describe times where these eruptions were relevant in your life?
Well, I think it stems from a refusal or inability to see myself objectively. Whenever someone criticizes me, whether it's constructive criticism or not, there's a part of me that believes they're trying to take me down. I have a tendency to elevate myself above humanity, a tendency that has no doubt cost me quite a bit interpersonally, financially, academically, etc.
Though I should add, I have been in situations where I've had to sweat details a lot. It's very unnerving.