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  • NT Rational

    12 15.58%
  • SP Artisan

    43 55.84%
  • NF Crybaby

    27 35.06%
  • SJ Guardian

    3 3.90%
  • Athenian

    11 14.29%
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    Quote Originally Posted by moonlit_reveries View Post
    I'm surprised no one has said ESFP yet. Maybe they are the most flirtatious of the types rather than the best flirts? But for me personally, charm is the best way to lure me in and from my experience ESFP flirting has tons of that. I'm a sucker for SFP and to some extent NFP flirting
    I would tend to think ESFP less inhibited than ESFJ, but ESFJ is going to have the edge because of Fe when they do chose to flirt, but ENFJ would be even better because they can use their N to guess what other people want to see/hear.

    So best flirts overall for all types, in my opinion, in order:
    ENFJ
    ENFP
    ESFJ
    ESFP
    ENTP
    ESTP

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jae Rae View Post
    Check the back posts - ESFPs were mentioned twice already.
    Ah, I was scanning through this post rather quickly and I noticed a lot on NT flirting and must of missed the ESFP stuff in the shuffle.
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    Best Flirts:

    5. ESFP
    4. ENFP
    3. ESTP
    2. ENTP
    1. Athenian

    Although, I could be biased.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatsWhatHeSaid View Post
    What type flirts the best and why? (best as in most "efficient," or most adaptive, or most universal in terms of getting good responses across all types*)

    I'm going to say that NTPs are the best flirts. I think flirting has to do with recognizing that boundary between danger and safety and blurring it. NTs are comfortable pushing that boundary (unlike SJs and NFs) and are good at recognizing that boundary because so much of their lives are spent getting burned by it and relying on their analytical mind to navigate social situations. NTs can be very observant and pick up on details in behavior and throw them back in your face. Their language savvy helps them set up punch lines and craft their comments in ways that maximize comedic or ironic impact. They also know big words and can use that to their advantage to set themselves up as intelligent or observant, so people think they're listening to someone witty and interesting, rather than pedantic.

    Do other temperaments/types have different flirting styles?




    *If anyone knows a good word for this, please PM or rep me. It's killing me.

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    i think ENTPs are the best

    edit: on second thought, my little brother is an ENTP and he's definitely got flirting issues

    it's a self confidence thing.

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    I'm often accused of being a flirt, but I'm not trying to flirt, I'm just naturally this charming.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jeffster View Post
    I'm often accused of being a flirt, but I'm not trying to flirt, I'm just naturally this charming.
    Well, you ARE a big beef patty with two golden buns. I can see why.
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    Dramatic>Sensitive>Serious

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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkPiranha View Post
    Well, you ARE a big beef patty with two golden buns. I can see why.
    Exaaaaactly.

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    I'm kind of a flirt so I voted for my own type. How insightful.

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    Quote Originally Posted by alicia91 View Post
    I'm kind of a flirt so I voted for my own type. How insightful.
    Hey...how YOU doin'?

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