Of course, always, either on-line and IRL, I am this:
I tend to let things go, get into an argument, and be friendly the next day (or the next week) and I don't tolerate people I don't like well. Of course the ISFp description also said ISFp's don't like being around people they don't like, and their natural charm will disappear and their speech will become unintelligeble ...and yes, I can sound like I'm either really boring or cruel around someone I don't like.SEEs may be quite faithful and allegiant to those they are close to; however, their relations and emotional reactions towards others may be volatile and lubricious. Though they often aspire to treat everyone with whom they interact in a convivial manner, they may exhibit strong (and often variable) dislike of certain individuals. They may maintain an internal network of certain individuals whom they regard as friends, and others who they regard as jerks or otherwise with some antagonism. They often have little conception of the history of their emotional reactions towards others; they may be inimical and perncious one day, while incognizant of the conflict on the next.
To me, I seem something like the SEE or SEI rather than the ESI ..who, as I said, sounds more like an MBTI ISFJ, sounds a lot like JTG, and he said so himself, I'm not the one just saying that about him.
I just took the test and it it said SEI lol....but that SEE is 90 percent as likely...and it also says "at her worst, the SEI can become highly emotional, and these emotions can become very volatile--changing quickly from happiness to sadness to anger within minutes. Furthermore, these volatile and strong emotional states will be shared freely with those around her--to either their pleasure or detriment."
And that's true.
I do like to do things, but I can certainly stand multiple days off of work...I don't identify with you saying you can't stand more than one day off of work, that sounds like my ESFJ friend, she runs herself to death, and she says it's to avoid thinking, and she's aware that she probably needs therapy because she will "do" until she drops...I think she's an Enneagram 3.
I also read the thing about being Merry or whatever, and I think I might be a Merry quadra, more childish. I also relate to this aspect of the Socionics Fe
I don't know, though, I don't understand Socionics that well, not as well as you do.Even after explosive arguments, these types find it hard to hold grudges, and can tolerate people they (in principle) don't like, as long as the situation is primarily social and doesn't require too close contact. They prefer misgivings to be out in the open; they believe that the silent treatment is one of the worst things you can do to a person, and only aggravates the underlying problem.