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ExFx acquaintance

Zhuli Lily Askar

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Can someone who is knows Extraverted Feelers very well give me some advice on how to identify an ExFx's exact type. I'm obsessed with finding out this person's type.
 

BlackCat

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First off, define what functions they use. Whether they are EP or EJ should be somewhat obvious with how they carry themselves. If you are getting confused with that, they could be an ESFJ with decent Ne, or an ENFJ with decent Se. ESFP and ENFP are pretty different if you know how to pick out Se and Ne.
 

Zhuli Lily Askar

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First off, define what functions they use. Whether they are EP or EJ should be somewhat obvious with how they carry themselves. If you are getting confused with that, they could be an ESFJ with decent Ne, or an ENFJ with decent Se. ESFP and ENFP are pretty different if you know how to pick out Se and Ne.

She's so well rounded it' hard to say.
She's good with Se and Ne. Probably Se though? I really don't know if she's a P or J. She's really mixed honestly.
 

BlackCat

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She's so well rounded it' hard to say.
She's good with Se and Ne. Probably Se though? I really don't know if she's a P or J. She's really mixed honestly.

How is she good with Se and Ne? A lot of Pe dom 7s (which is the theory I have going here for this person) can look very balanced, especially ESFPs since they have more of a mental "edge" to them due to their 7ness; giving off the impression that they could be a bit more "intuitive".

If you say probably Se then she could very well be a smart ESFP, but you'd have to do more research to be sure.
 

BlackCat

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She's so well rounded it' hard to say.
She's good with Se and Ne. Probably Se though? I really don't know if she's a P or J. She's really mixed honestly.

How is she good with Se and Ne? A lot of Pe dom 7s (which is the theory I have going here for this person) can look very balanced, especially ESFPs since they have more of a mental "edge" to them due to their 7ness; giving off the impression that they could be a bit more "intuitive".

If you say probably Se then she could very well be a smart ESFP, but you'd have to do more research to be sure.
 

Zhuli Lily Askar

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How is she good with Se and Ne? A lot of Pe dom 7s (which is the theory I have going here for this person) can look very balanced, especially ESFPs since they have more of a mental "edge" to them due to their 7ness; giving off the impression that they could be a bit more "intuitive".

If you say probably Se then she could very well be a smart ESFP, but you'd have to do more research to be sure.

She has very good intuition skills when she wants to honestly but she gets tired of it and wouldn't seem to want to use it all the time, like if I try to get her thinking with intuition she might avoid and I can tell always using it would annoy her, but this is not because it exhausts her. She maybe just wants to appear...I'm not sure. She seems to dodge it one way or another. She's Se for sure. Likely type 7. Good with Ne, takes my Ni a lying and doesn't get it. I really can't tell if she uses Te/Ti or Fe/Fi. I always felt that she had great depths with Fi but I see it less often. She uses Fe all the time but I don't think it counts as much....each time somehow. I'm more partial to believing that she's Ti than Te I think because when I'm talking to her I don't see why she continues thinking on and on even when it isn't useful anymore. It's how feel. Not sure if my feelings are valid.
 
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