I recently realized that I do most of my processing and interpreting when I'm alone after the conversation has ended, compared with an e5 who told me he's constantly analyzing and interpreting for hidden meanings. I'm often not aware of what I think or feel about the conversation until later on when I replay it in my head. It's kind of annoying because I tend to miss things, like not realizing that someone had misinterpreted what I said until later for instance.
When I do try to process while the person is talking, I run the risk of zoning out and missing half the conversation. It's like I can't be in the conversation and be in my thoughts at the same time.
Could this be something type related, or is it just me?