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    I doubt he's forgotten about me. Based on my understanding, he doesn't ignore people he doesn't care for.

    I'm going to poke until he tells me to go away. I think he takes some sort of pleasure in ignoring people for as long as he can.

    And I'm not love struck. He is an interesting person and I like a good challenge. I'm just trying to get him to actually talk to me @Nerd Girl.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Antimony View Post
    I'm going to poke until he tells me to go away.
    Haha I really love the way you phrased that But I think it's the right way to go about this issue. Are you able to see him in person, or is it just communicating over the internet? I think he could be really uncomfortable with texting / emails etc., and actually seeing him would make quite a difference.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mad Hatter View Post
    Haha I really love the way you phrased that
    There is option A: I make him angry because all along he never wanted to talk. Well, it's his fault for not saying anything.

    Option B: he finally talks to me (he usually picks up the first time I call) and I have a decent conversation with him.

    There are other options for when he finally does respond, or doesn't, but those are the two I see playing out.

    But I think it's the right way to go about this issue. Are you able to see him in person, or is it just communicating over the internet? I think he could be really uncomfortable with texting / emails etc., and actually seeing him would make quite a difference.
    I could see him in person, but it would require planning. I don't go to school with him. He seems extremely comfortable in person, but if I can't reach him, I can't plan to see him.

    The last time I saw him I was with my (then) boyfriend. That's when it stopped. So....I don't know if that says anything or if I am just making assumptions.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Antimony View Post
    I doubt he's forgotten about me. Based on my understanding, he doesn't ignore people he doesn't care for.

    I'm going to poke until he tells me to go away. I think he takes some sort of pleasure in ignoring people for as long as he can.

    And I'm not love struck. He is an interesting person and I like a good challenge. I'm just trying to get him to actually talk to me @Nerd Girl.
    Is he a student? Is he working? What's his situation?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nerd Girl View Post
    Is he a student? Is he working? What's his situation?
    Student. Probably working. Uncertain of his situation given the time passed.

    A phone call or text isn't the longest thing in the world. Plus, he is one of the most brilliant people I have ever met, and he is handling school well.
    Excuse me, but does this smell like chloroform to you?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Antimony View Post
    Student. Probably working. Uncertain of his situation given the time passed.

    A phone call or text isn't the longest thing in the world. Plus, he is one of the most brilliant people I have ever met, and he is handling school well.
    I understand. I'm still examining the situation.

    Is he in college? Do you live close to him?

    Has he ever had any girl friends that you're aware of (platonic or otherwise)?

    Any awkward flirting or conversations about when or how you want your lives to play out. (I know you're not lovestruck; valid question.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nerd Girl View Post
    I understand. I'm still examining the situation.

    Is he in college? Do you live close to him?
    Yes, no. But I am in his area frequently.

    Has he ever had any girl friends that you're aware of (platonic or otherwise)?
    Ages ago, but he didn't particularly like them. I think he got annoyed by them because he would grasp at straws, basically, and date whoever came his way. It's been awhile to the best of my knowledge.

    Any awkward flirting or conversations about when or how you want your lives to play out. (I know you're not lovestruck; valid question.)
    Haha, awkward? Our flirting has always been smooth. We haven't discussed that sort of stuff, really.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Antimony View Post
    Yes, no. But I am in his area frequently.

    Ages ago, but he didn't particularly like them. I think he got annoyed by them because he would grasp at straws, basically, and date whoever came his way. It's been awhile to the best of my knowledge.

    Haha, awkward? Our flirting has always been smooth. We haven't discussed that sort of stuff, really.
    Good. Good. We're getting somewhere. Did you breakup with your boyfriend? If so, does xNTP know?

    Correct me if I'm wrong, but it sounds like xNTP stopped communicating after he found out you had a boyfriend. Is that accurate?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nerd Girl View Post
    Good. Good. We're getting somewhere. Did you breakup with your boyfriend? If so, does xNTP know?

    Correct me if I'm wrong, but it sounds like xNTP stopped communicating after he found out you had a boyfriend. Is that accurate?
    Yes, broken up. I don't know if he knows.

    And he knew I had a boyfriend.
    Excuse me, but does this smell like chloroform to you?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Antimony View Post
    Yes, broken up. I don't know if he knows.

    And he knew I had a boyfriend.
    I'm working on a reply, but I have to stop and ask you something else. Have you mentioned anything to him about the non-communication?

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