@freeeekyyy, was your question for the OP or me? sorry, i couldn't tell. i was referring to christianity in my post but wasn't really asking about others but would be interested to hear about experiences from other faiths.
For some reason I was thinking you were the OP. What you said in your earlier post made a lot of sense to me. Different types are better suited to different roles.
I think that different denominations appeal to different personalities. Just looking within the Christian church, you have a large range from strict denominations with a lot of rules, to churches that emphasize grace and how God loves us so much, to charismatic churches where you are dancing in the aisles.