Im a "tweener" with type.
<> If life were ideal, where everyone is able to self actualize, I'm definitey an ENFJ. I've been near the top of the actualization chart Near "joy", but life has knocked me back to desire and anger for certain extended times... (would make a cool thread!) http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/200...-consciousness
<> much of life is not ideal and is therefore stressed. I don't relate to the type stereotypical stress response of histrionics and emotional manipulation; when I get stressed I first "laugh it off", then get angry and finally just want to go into the fetal position.. Each one feels more like another type.
<> I probably come off as more ENTJ ISTP irl when trying to deal with life. I'm a Ni child, but I'm less of a pied piper than the ENFJ description when I'm not at the higher levels of actualization.
<> I've read somewhere that the ENFJ is one of the most "universal types" and that fits me well. We have a wide range of manifestations that owes more to the "people skills are part of everything" than to us being jack of all trade flakes