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    Quote Originally Posted by AphroditeGoneAwry View Post
    lol.

    I don't think we are easy to offend at all. We usually (excuse me fellow infjs if you don't agree with my collective use of infjs here) give people numerous benefits of the doubt, which also usually results in something of our own demise, before we would wreak havoc on someone else (even if it deserved). And even then, we'd probably be more likely to walk away than see the other person's reputation or life hurt in any way.


    Sounds like you are thinking of some T type. Or perhaps a very unhealthy infj...


    Why do you think this way? And, no offense, but you don't seem like an entp to me. Are you sure you are?
    I already told you. I'm not really sure why I feel this way. It's probably something totally irrational.

    Quote Originally Posted by AphroditeGoneAwry View Post
    lol.

    I don't think we are easy to offend at all. We usually (excuse me fellow infjs if you don't agree with my collective use of infjs here) give people numerous benefits of the doubt, which also usually results in something of our own demise, before we would wreak havoc on someone else (even if it deserved). And even then, we'd probably be more likely to walk away than see the other person's reputation or life hurt in any way.
    I can see the part about giving lots of latititude before dropping the axe. But I'm not sure I believe the part about walking away.

    Well, I know Im ENTP, but what type do I seem like to you?

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    Well you seemed like you had something to say earlier. And so you piqued my curiosity, is all.

    I don't know. I haven't paid much attention. You seem too mellow to be an ENTP...
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    Quote Originally Posted by AphroditeGoneAwry View Post
    Well you seemed like you had something to say earlier. And so you piqued my curiosity, is all.

    I don't know. I haven't paid much attention. You seem too mellow to be an ENTP...
    Well, I'm working on being more mellow. I'm naturally much more reactionary and aggressive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spurgeon View Post
    Well, I'm working on being more mellow. I'm naturally much more reactionary and aggressive.
    lol
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    And yeah, I do have more to say, but I might have to say it in the Brutally Honest Thread.

    I'm also afraid of going too far and getting banned. So that's why i'm being so cautious.

    I know how easily ENTPs get pegged as troublemakers.

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    We don't drop axes. We slam doors. Haven't you heard?

    I'm not sure that's right though. I know for me it's more like this inching closed thing, alternated with peeking back out to see if anything has changed, checking on the climate/situation. When it finally closes (slams) everyone else is usually already miles away and thus doesn't even notice.

    EDIT: I'd lerve to hear what you have to say about us. Don't worry, you cannot be worse than Z. And he doesn't get banned.
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    Oh, and I feel like your avatar is judging me right now. lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spurgeon View Post
    It seems like they could and would utterly destroy your reputation and make you an utter pariah--completely cast out of the camp forever--if you crossed them enough.
    Yeah, I admit we might cast you out of the camp forever. But only if you've showed again and again that you're selfish, untrustworthy, mean, hurtful, etc, and we've given you the benefit of the doubt a million times. Or if there is absolutely no good reason to keep you in our lives - when it would only do us harm. However, I think we're unlikely to destroy you.

    Basically, if you don't act like an ass with an INFJ, don't screw us over, don't completely take us for granted and use and abuse us, you will be absolutely fine and you will have a very loyal and low-maintenance friend.

    But I'm thinking you must have had some bad experiences with real or supposed INFJs. (Entirely possible, we are not saints. We're not Hitler either!)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Spurgeon View Post
    Oh, and I feel like your avatar is judging me right now. lol.
    She has her own problems.

    But she'll bite if you want her to.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SilkRoad View Post
    But I'm thinking you must have had some bad experiences with real or supposed INFJs.
    No. It's nothing deep or personal like that.

    I just have a wacky theory about why Ni and Fe (or Te) lends itself to quasi-Fascist worldviews.

    It's just too inflammatory. I don't think it will be received very well.

    I've learned from past mistakes that sometimes it's better to keep ideas to yourself.

    Sorry for the tease.

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