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    Default Gentle men with aggressive undertones

    If you are a "gentle" man, or one who would be considered kind, thoughtful, etc., do you find that you have aggressive fantasies or do things like play violent video games or is your internal life just as gentle as your outer life?

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    Who doesn't play violent video games? Does another kind of video game exist?
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    I try to avoid the kind of man you just described.
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    Well, I play "violent" games (very rarely the shooter kind of games though) and might hear sometimes music with more violent lyrics, but not because they are so violent usually. If you watch TV chances are you often see something violent too so I think it is kinda normal? Maybe not my my music taste but as I say I don't listen to it because of violence...

    Otherwise I am a kind person and avoid violence in real life totally, although I might defend myself if I get attacked (not that my chances would look very good, lol). I never have fantasies to hurt anyone. So I don't see anything wrong with it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lily flower View Post
    If you are a "gentle" man, or one who would be considered kind, thoughtful, etc., do you find that you have aggressive fantasies or do things like play violent video games or is your internal life just as gentle as your outer life?
    Not normally any violent fantasies, but other than that I fit.

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    To be honest I really have no idea. I don't even know where to start thinking about it. I'm not sure if I'm gentle, what compared to? I've had aggressive fantasies. enough to warrant a post?

    It's enough to make me want to smack someone. I don't know...

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    Inwardly, I sometimes want to kill everyone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lily flower View Post
    Gentle with aggressive undertones
    sounds like a wine description.
    A rich, dark red wine, surprisingly smooth, Very fruity with spicy undertones and a full bouquet reminiscent of black currant. Gentle oaking adds complexity. Ages delightfully!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cloud of Thunder View Post
    Inwardly, I sometimes want to kill everyone.
    NFs are so warm and fuzzy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lily flower View Post
    If you are a "gentle" man, or one who would be considered kind, thoughtful, etc., do you find that you have aggressive fantasies or do things like play violent video games or is your internal life just as gentle as your outer life?
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