I didn't ask for girly handwriting it just sort of turned out that way. My teacher & mother had very pretty writing. I know ENFJs learn best through emulation so I assume that is how it came to be . I remember how excited I was as a child that I was going to be learning cursive. I wanted to be able to decipher what I couldn't make out of adult handwriting! The adults wouldn't be able to get anything over on me now!!! I remember this was shortly after I figured out (and didn't tell them ) they were using 'pig latin' to say things to one another. I had to put a stop to my secret when I discovered in about 3rd/4th grade some of the comments my dad was making to my mom were grossly sexual in nature . (Too much information ...yes I know!) I am like proteanmix though in that my handwriting reflects my moods. I know when I am angry there are lots of exclamation points, rushed it's sloppy for me and sad/reflective lots of commas and (.........).