My first thread, woot. Anyways,
Being an INTJ, I've had a few people tell me that I come across as "intimidating". If you're not familiar with the type, INTJ's are basically the strategists of the bunch. For every situation that occurs, we'll have ten scenarios playing out in our heads, and ten scenarios branching off from those. We're very much logical, rational, and adept at working alone, which other types may interpret as cold, unfeeling, and aloof. But what I'm saying is that we INTJ's have feelings too! Take Hannibal Lector for instance, one of the more well-known INTJ's. He had his moments with Clarice ;D So please don't label us as arrogant weirdos.
Feel free to share your past experiences with any INTJ's you have met.