So yeah...I don't know if that helps. Your Fe seems much more sincere to me. I could just see you as an ISFJ having a lot of Si/Ti precision, which could make you seem orderly and more T.
Yeah everybody is different. In my case, I'm either more theoretical than some ESFPs or more "earthy" than a lot of ENFPs.Neuroticism seems to common with some (but not all) of the SJs I know, myself included. Some of our routines we have an almost OCD like quality to them.
It just boggles me sometimes how it is that I seemed to somehow escape becoming as rigid as some other ISFJs I know, particularly the females. I just keep thinking, "What makes you so different from me? We have have similar value systems yet why is it that you and I can come to such vastly different conclusions?"
I dunno, maybe I have a stronger Ni than I give myself credit for, or perhaps a more influential inferior-Ne?
It's something I like to ponder on
But when I say my ESFJ is neurotic, he's really got some issues. I think he's gotten a little better though. It's been years since we've broken up and I think he might be making some progress. I hope so for his sake.