One of my favorite types is ESTP... I almost always get along with them, they're fucking hilarious & seem to naturally bring out a social side of my personality that I always enjoy but which simply doesn't exist around most people. I can see how a lot of INFPs wouldn't get along with them so great, since they're so crude & unserious & semi-goofy in how they talk & act, but to me it's the best circuit-breaker from any weird mental stuff I might be going thru.
They have that zany humor I always enjoy, they're obviously the best carousing partners, & they seem like the most innately kind-hearted of all the thinkers despite whatever gross humor they have. As an INFP you feel out of place at first, but what you realize eventually is that the disgusting sex-humor is kind of tidy in a way, it's sort of automatic & shallowly imaginative so if you come back over the top with something truly heinously fucked-up & dark & hilarious, they get a respect for you. Maybe female INFPs would have more trouble with it, but for me it's soooo easy to riff on the general pattern of dirty sex jokes & come up with even worse stuff.
Admittedly, most of this is about male ESTPs, since I don't think I know many female ones.
BUT anyway, which of the types that are 'very different' from yours is your favorite?