This sort of thing happens to my ESFP sister. She always tells me about how some person or other started a verbal spat with her, or tried to sabotage her, or just in general has it out for her. I always thought that she was lying/exaggerating to create drama, but it happens so often (and she has such extreme reactions to it) that it probably is real. It doesn't help that she refuses to approach the situation calmly; instead, she reacts aggressively and carries shit on and on.
I've never really had such problems.