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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatGirl View Post
    Lol, I can't wait till all of you physical touch and quality time people come home from a hard day to find a lazy man in front of the tv who now wants to either talk about his feelings, his day, or have sex.....while you still have a million other things to do.

    Just sayin!
    Even in this scenario, I would probably be ok as long as I got physical contact. I need to be connected with the human that I love. Not necessarily sexually, though I'd never let anyone else touch me in the way a partner does. I just crave touch as a way to express feelings. I don't feel right if I don't have that outlet. My favorite things ever are laying my head in his lap and being patted and being completely entwined watching teev. I feel like I don't even need much else if I have those things. (Ridiculous, I know!)

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    I would have a hard time trying to put the 5 in a hierarchy... it really depends on the nature of the relationship I have with the person in question.

    Words mean little to nothing to me unless it's from someone I like/love. Same deal with physical touch, gifts, quality time etc.
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    NT. I will rank them and go through them. I grew up in a family with very different preferences than mine, so I can accept most.

    1. Quality time—Time is the most precious commodity in my life.
    2. Physical Touch—I don’t always communicate well with words. Though I MUST see it coming. Nothing angers me more than being touched at the wrong time…like when I’m trying to read. Or write. Or focused intensely upon a task. It disrupts my concentration and I don't take well to it.
    3. Service—I work 40 hours as well as belong to a PhD program. I don’t have much time to do many everyday tasks like going to the store. Somebody who does these things for me, and does them right--before I need to ask them to do it--makes me feel deeply understood.
    4. Words of Affirmation—I am not good at this, nor do I require it (sometimes it comes off as disingenuous). But my INFJ mate is good at this, so I have come to accept it.
    5. Gift giving—I dislike feeling like I am buying somebody or being bought. But, if the message in the gift is salient, I will remember the gift forever. Though, my father is a strong gift giver, so I have learned to accept his gift style…he simply doesn’t know any way show he cares other than a signed check and a hug. He’s a very busy, strong-and-silent type.

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    Quote Originally Posted by onemoretime View Post
    My guess -

    sx/sp - touch, and service (quality time is spent in helping someone else out)
    sp/sx - gifts, and words (showing intimacy, but not too much)
    sx/so - touch, and words (since time gets the two of you close, and words strengthen that social bond)
    so/sx - time, and touch (since your sexual instinct desires to intensify the social relationship)
    sp/so - gifts, and service (like nice things, but you really like giving and receiving nice things from loved ones)
    so/sp - time, and words (the greatest gift is to know that someone loves you, and that you love someone)

    Probably wrong, but what the hey?
    I wonder if Enneagram type + instinctual subtype would have some better correlation. It doesn't seem like there is much correlation at all for MBTI.

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    INFJ

    1. Words
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    3. Gifts
    4. Time
    5. Acts

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    1. Quality Time
    I love taking time to analyze people and get to know them better. The more time you spend, the better you know someone.

    2/3 tied. Physical Touch
    This might contradict it, but to me, love and sex are in different categories, AND I don't like being touched, but intimacy changes it all (and I like changes).

    2/3 tied. Words of Affirmation
    I think it's important to know if they love me or not because it's crucial information. Also I want to know that they are thankful having someone as awesome and intellectually badass as me.

    4. Acts of Service
    Since I am lazy, it does help if they do my shit, but then there's things that aren't their business, no matter how much I love them. I like acts of service in general, but they are irrelevant in love. I don't speak this language.

    5. Gifts
    I am a very objective person. I don't care what the f##k they thought about when they bought me that present. I only care about the present itself. If it's bad, I would usually think lower of them but I never think low of someone I love. If it's good, awesome, but then again I am fascinated of that present at the moment and forget about the person, so this is a language I don't speak.

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    NF
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    words of affirmation
    gifts
    acts of service

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