I have an ISFJ friend i talk to alot, and i often listen to her problems and help sort through them. One day, i opened up to her about something im really upset about, and she seemed a little confused as to how to react. I wondered if i had been too intense for her so i apologized but she told me she wasnt upset at all she just didnt know what to say.
Ive noticed the same thing in other ISFJs. Are you guys a little scared of intensity, or am i misreading it all? If you can explain it in anyway that would be really nice