"It isn't about gifts, or regular attention, or going out to dinner." Gosh she sounds ungrateful. No wonder her partners are uncomfortable.
well, I dunno, i get what she is saying. It goes back to the love languages. Hers doesnt appear to be gifts or spending quality time together, but rather words of affirmation and perhaps touch. I suppose because I end up as a 4w5 it doesnt seem so unreasonable to me. Gifts are just things, but the person and everything about them is what is really important.
The guy was really interesting as he didnt use any side to side Fe eye movements at all. It was all direct or broken downwards. He also did a lot of hand gesturing and there was a pronounced physicality.
To be honest people have a love/hate relationship with the ENTJs I have known. I have always liked them a lot, but because the Te can be so very out there and in your face, it really can piss off people. Half of the folks are terrified of them and the rest think they are awesome.
I personally love to find missions where I know I can make a difference and then I take the fight straight to the ENTJ, yell for awhile (which the ENTJs call talking), and then get permission to actually improve things. Once I take a mission to them, they really like me, because I dont fight for a cause unless I know I am right, so going head to head with ENTJs is damned fun, because I know I can win.