Orobas, I liked all of your post before last, but in particular the last paragraph! Yes! Exactly. We want the summarized processed version of your emotions along with a recommendation for action, while Te wants a summarized processed version of ideas along with a recommendation for action. Both sides are open to coming up with the action themselves, but do want the summary. Introverted thinking or feeling tends to view this as being far too superficial to adequately understand the problem and come up with an appropriate solution. I think both Fe and Te feel that bringing them unprocessed and summarized information is lazy or is requesting a lot of unnecessary attention and babying.
I also agree with you that Ti does personalize my Fe to specific people. I would even venture to suggest that Ni serves in tandom as well in narrowing down an optimal solution after considering a wide variety of possibilities specific to the situation. Do Fi and Si work this way for you?