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    Default Could you fall in love with an INTJ?

    Being an INTJ myself I've noticed that in any type of relationship I've ever had
    I have not been able (or willing) to give back as much intensity as I've received.

    What I want to know is how many of you would be willing to stay in a relationship where the other person doesn't show any signs of love towards you?
    BASED ON THE OPINIONS OF OTHERS ( YOU) ON HUMAN TOLERANCE NOT ME.
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    Quote Originally Posted by maydelle View Post

    What I want to know is how many of you would be willing to stay in a relationship where the other person doesn't show any signs of love towards you?
    please elaborate. what are 'signs of love?' to you? i like my relationships to include affection, sex, talking, going on fun dates - inter alia.

    why do you want to be in a relationship if you don't want to give anything? just be alone or see sex workers.

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    Yes, you'll have to elaborate on what you mean.

    I don't think anyone wants to date a frigid bastard.

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    Quote Originally Posted by strawberries View Post
    please elaborate. what are 'signs of love?' to you? i like my relationships to include affection, sex, talking, going on fun dates - inter alia.

    why do you want to be in a relationship if you don't want to give anything? just be alone or see sex workers.
    Had a proper good *genuine* laugh just then. Who doesn't talk in a relationship haha. Have you realised for the how ever many years you've been alive that people tend to show their affections in a different way. Why would you assume that I would want to be alone?

    'Signs of love' for me would be: doing something I don't like for them, being careful with my words when I'm with them, wanting to impress them, thinking about them constantly and acting like a complete fool around them.

    In my opinion love needs to be earned not something that you can just give away based on how fun that person is, their looks or stupid stuff like that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by maydelle View Post
    What I want to know is how many of you would be willing to stay in a relationship where the other person doesn't show any signs of love towards you?
    Ummmm, how about no fucking way.

    Anyone who would choose to stay in a relationship with someone that did not show any signs of affection toward them obviously has issues of insufficient self worth, which would be horrid for them, and wonderful for you.

    I suggest you warm up emotionally and find a real love interest.
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    Quote Originally Posted by You'reWrongI'mRight View Post
    Yes, you'll have to elaborate on what you mean.

    I don't think anyone wants to date a frigid bastard.
    By frigid bastard you mean who exactly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Halla74 View Post
    Ummmm, how about no fucking way.

    Anyone who would choose to stay in a relationship with someone that did not show any signs of affection toward them obviously has issues of insufficient self worth, which would be horrid for them, and wonderful for you.

    I suggest you warm up emotionally and find a real love interest.

    Don't take the question as something that comes genuinely from me and is an insight on my life, it's just a question on the behaviour of people generally. So let's just all calm down

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    Quote Originally Posted by maydelle View Post
    Don't take the question as something that comes genuinely from me and is an insight on my life, it's just a question on the behaviour of people generally. So let's just all calm down
    (1) I am calm.
    (2) Regardless of the genesis of your OP, my response remains unchanged.
    (3) Ask yourself that very same question. Does it sound like a good deal? I didn't think so.
    (4) I'm not hating, just giving you blunt advice.
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    INTjs show love differently from other people. I know the INTJs in my life care for me, not by what they say, but by what they do. They try and look out for me, try and keep from doing stupid things, try and give me lots of Te-nudges. ( You can also see love in their eyes, but shhhh, dont tell them it leaks out all over the place.)

    They also get kinda silly and goofy, tehehehehee. It's adorable. and touch.....

    But no, I suspect an INTJ would never emo-incinerate someone else or drastically externalize emotion. That's okay if The INTJ's partner understands what to look for. That might take some communication at first though.

    the generalized question is non realistic.
    Last edited by sculpting; 10-28-2010 at 07:59 PM. Reason: cause he didnt want it to be about him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by maydelle View Post
    By frigid bastard you mean who exactly.
    First of all, you did not elaborate.

    Second of all, by frigid, I was refering to those who are FRIGID.
    If you feel insulted by that, maybe there is a reason to be?

    But just in case you thought I was referring to you. I wasn't, and by your following answers, I don't think you were, however, blame it on my J for me to clarify.

    You haven't explained enough for me to make that assumption. I was merely stating that it is unlikely that anyone would willingly date someone who is of a frigid nature.

    By Frigid, I meant:

    cold, sexually unresponsive,a lack of affection or enthusiasm,devoid of warmth and cordiality; expressive of unfriendliness or disdain

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