KDude
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What does it mean if you're usually the more communicative person when it comes to dating (or even friendships)? I'm usually the person who seems to ask more questions, calls first, writes an email.. Can an introvert be the outgoing person in a relationship? I'm not particularly avoidant or unassertive. If anything, I'll do things to help someone not be that way.
Secondly, I'm prone to fantasizing a little, and try to make reality line up with whatever potential I see. Is this an N thing? On the flipside, I tend to see what might be a problem that isn't really worth working through, and just cut it off before there's too much drama. I'll judge things beforehand and don't exactly take situations as they come (and I'm guessing that's what SPs usually do).
My mentality is different when it comes to groups.. I mean, I barely do anything to affect groups or wider social situations (or be affected in turn). So I'm iffy on calling myself an extrovert. Just seems like I take on extroverted qualities when it's one-to-one (if that even makes sense).
Secondly, I'm prone to fantasizing a little, and try to make reality line up with whatever potential I see. Is this an N thing? On the flipside, I tend to see what might be a problem that isn't really worth working through, and just cut it off before there's too much drama. I'll judge things beforehand and don't exactly take situations as they come (and I'm guessing that's what SPs usually do).
My mentality is different when it comes to groups.. I mean, I barely do anything to affect groups or wider social situations (or be affected in turn). So I'm iffy on calling myself an extrovert. Just seems like I take on extroverted qualities when it's one-to-one (if that even makes sense).