lol, i dunno. never had that happen!Skylights and Lady x, so what happens if you feel like probing and are interested only to realize that you won't get anywhere doing so with an I? What if you do and you find that nothing is there that is really that interesting or deep?
more like i find things i'm frustrated with, or just generally annoyed by, or really disagree with their views and decide to stop. i've never met someone who is simply uninteresting to me.
oh, and here's a difference: i think IxxJ (and ExxJ too) have more of an aversion to sharing personal depth than Ps do. it seems to take you guys a bit more to open up. i've proposed this before in the NF forum i think - NFP and NFJ, at least, seem to generally hide in very different ways. typically, NFJ hides depth; NFP hides breadth. after a night at the bar you will know all 500 things NFJ is interested in but you will not know about their childhood. conversely you will hear 500 stories from NFP's childhood but you will not have any idea about the real extent of their interests.