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    I want for everyone to feel as welcome and happy to be there as I am! Plus- quiet people fascinate me
    “Oh, we're always alright. You remember that. We happen to other people.” -Terry Pratchett

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    Quote Originally Posted by arcticangel02 View Post


    Does this happen frequently?
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    she's mobbed by canadians like The Beatles were with groupies back in the day!
    I was chased just yesterday. My tin foil hat and tin foil pants were almost no match for him. I made the mistake of taking him down a peg on his politics and then used the phrase "unwashed troglodyte commoner man" on him. Something just kinda went "ping" in his brain.

    The crazy thing is that I live no where near Canada. Figure that one out!


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    This interests me. What's the attraction of chatting them up? I do it myself in a hostess capacity but otherwise I wouldn't go by that criterion when zeroing in on conversation targets at a party. What's in it for you?
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    I want for everyone to feel as welcome and happy to be there as I am! Plus- quiet people fascinate me
    Whatever has it right! I hate to see someone looking alone and UNCOMFORTABLE. If they look all right with sitting alone, then I don't pester them, but if they look like they're going to puke on their shoes from social anxiety, then I try to step in and just relax them a little with some not-too-banal chat.
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    Wondering how long I have to stay before I can leave; wondering how I can reduce that time; planning my escape.

    Or cooking. One or the other.

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    Walks into the room and comes to a halt 2 step past the doorway. Sidesteps to observe the scene without blocking the entrance. Blinks to herself

    Mutters under her breath for the nth time, "Why am I coming to a party? I don't like parties..."

    Pretends to be all casual like and walks diagonally across the room (while weaving expertly around clusters of people of course). All the while carefully scanning the room for people she knows.

    Hears the commotion at the kitchen and peeks in. Decides to grab a can of pop while she's there. Then wanders to find a group of friends talking and stands on one side to listen while sipping her soda.

    Becomes bored a couple of minutes later and finds a quiet unoccupied spot to sit. Debates whether enough is enough. Has she stayed long enough to meet social obligations.

    Then goes "What the heck!"

    Grabs all her stuff and heads to the door.

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    I'm standing quietly of to the side sipping on a drink . I hope someone spots me or I spot someone I feel comfortable approaching. Two or three more drinks this won't be a problem.
    In no likes experiment.

    that is all

    i dunno what else to say so

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    I break out in a cold sweat every time I enter a party, Night. Maybe we should walk in together?
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    Depends if I'm drunk or not. If not under the influence I'll probably be with a close friend or two chatting or whatever. If drunk I'll probably trail off in search of pretty girls to hit on. lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBeatGoesOn View Post
    Depends if I'm drunk or not. If not under the influence I'll probably be with a close friend or two chatting or whatever. If drunk I'll probably trail off in search of pretty girls to hit on. lol
    Do they hit you back?



    quiet people usually have interesting things to share. The noisy ones will always be talking and be at every party, you won't miss them if you skip them for a couple... but the quiet ones may not show up again, or they may grab their stuff and head for the door before you've finished saying hello.

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    Like nightning. :P
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    Judging (5%) ---- Perceiving (95%)

    9w1 so/sx/sp

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    Or my INTJ wingman. Without me and Jaye, he woulda holed up long ago. He liked getting out with us. He didn't have to say anything, just get out among people with two trusty extroverted NFs! Plus, he keeps us out of trouble.
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