anyway i agree with pretty much everything proteanmix said in that post but i don't really have a huge amount to say about it besides that. it's not out of lack of respect or interest or anything, and i did read it at the time and i re-read it now.
i think out of everything i particularly agree with her point that communication style can manifest through, but is not determined by, type. i think i communicate in a more Te-like fashion than anything, and if you were to read my creative writing it's pretty intensive Se.
my dad and brother are both INTPs, and they communicate pretty differently in some aspects, though similarly in others. dad is REALLY blatant. he completely lacks tact, lol. we were joking about it at dinner tonight. my brother is much more indirect about things. he's a master at distraction, too. the kid can be jumping on the bed and mom will come in, and he'll point out how i didn't do the dishes like i was supposed to have, or whatever. i want to
him sometimes, lol... but he gets a lot like dad when he's angry. dad just gets angry and blatant, lol.