oh feel free to argue, I was just proposing a theory as it developed from the responses so far... bat stuff around freely
...though I think there's a good point about F women being bitchy too. Maybe it's not actually coldness then that they're not liking (perhaps) about a T woman, but in the absence of anything else to call it, that's what they go for? Personally I tend to associate bitchiness with F types... I've known T types, both male and female, to say bitchy remarks now and then but usually only under extreme pressure. I've not really known any Thinkers to engage in bitchy behaviour, especially the group bitching that you get with female bullying groups (stereotype cheerleaders?)... perhaps just not having the skill with both their own emotions and other people's, they don't bother using/manipulating them?