because if "non-confrontational" is an INFJ trait, how come so many of the ENFPs on this site actually seem to be the least judgemental and confrontational?
Oh, worlds of difference. MBTI is a way to roughly categorize the way people function, but variation between different personalities is far, far greater than what sixteen categories (or even the 108 type combinations the Enneagram of personality contains) could possibly tell you. Two people of the same type could have different moral values, different tastes, personal styles, experiences, ad nauseam. They could even use the same functional order and tendencies in wildly different ways. For example, in Harry Potter, Dudley Dursley and Harry himself have the same type (ESTP), but they are worlds apart.What kind of differences do you think there might be in two people with the same type? I'm not talking about one having a stronger trait than the other (i.e. more of an introvert). I'm talking about real differences in personality.
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Two of my closest friends are ESTP (confirmed), and two more are likely ESTP as well.
Harry is quite clearly Se Ti. He's very sharply attentive to detail, clear-headed, deductive, and enjoys action and activity; which is why he's such a good seeker and at mastering hexes and DADA in general. He also greatly enjoys social interaction, only seeking time alone when under great emotional stress, and even then he falls back on the support of Ron and Hermione -- especially Ron. In the fourth book it's made apparent when Ron stopped speaking to him for a month, that he heavily relied on the emotional support of his friend to get through rough times.
Harry is Fe to the bone. His actions are not based on internal values and he never tortures himself over whether he did something wrong, or things not going the way he wanted them to go, etc. Instead he has a very strong strong empathetic, heroic impulse (which Hermione has referred to as having "a bit of a... saving people thing").ugh... Harry Potter... no... I don't see it at all. I can't identify with him or his actions in the least like I can most ESTPs... no- he has that moral compass thing going for him that's much more Fi
Two of my closest friends are ESTP (confirmed), and two more are likely ESTP as well.
Harry is quite clearly Se Ti. He's very sharply attentive to detail, clear-headed, deductive, and enjoys action and activity; which is why he's such a good seeker and so very skilled at mastering hexes and DADA in general. He also greatly enjoys social interaction, only seeking time alone when under great emotional stress, and even then he falls back on the support of Ron and Hermione -- especially Ron. In the fourth book it's made apparent when Ron stopped speaking to him for a month, that he heavily relied on the emotional support of his friend to get through rough times.
Well, he has a second to none sense of physical coordination, and has a unique ability to see tiny, fast-moving objects like the Snitch. That denotes Se-dominance.
of course they can be normal, but they're just lively and talkative...stellar and whatever and halla have more in common together than they do with harry potter.
having Se dominance doesn't mean Se is BETTER. Fi would just filter how you weigh choices. Ti dom would prioritize intellectual interest. nothing more.