I am still trying to get my head around the sink or swim thing though, you mean you have to figure out how to unnaturally act around all these touchy feely doofuses? and if you dont learn you are destined to be a cat lady?
I can see how that would be distressing.
On the same token, NF males have to learn to control thier major cling factor and constant barrage of insecurities. If I acted out on all my nuttyness and did what came natural I would call my girl 20 times a day pumping her for info, reassurance etc...
hmmm I dunno, the thing I see though is that if I stay out of the corporate worker world I tend to thrive amoungst people in my relationships, I can see where an outspoken NT female might not do quite as well, which is why I voted for NT females in this poll :P