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  • I am an NF and I prefer NTs

    9 24.32%
  • I am an NF and I prefer NFs

    5 13.51%
  • I am an NT and I prefer NFs

    16 43.24%
  • I am an NT and I prefer NTs

    6 16.22%
  • I am an N and I prefer Ss

    1 2.70%
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    Default NF and NT singles: Which Type of Partner do you Prefer?

    When answering please please specify your type (if it is not already visible next to your avatar.)

    I would also appreciate it if you would voulenteer the following information:
    - Have you ever dated NTs (yes/no and optionally: how many)
    - Have you ever dated NFs (yes/no and optionally: how many)
    - Why do you prefer as you do?

    If you are in a relationship, or just got out of a relationship please do not particiate in the poll. (Though you can still state your opinion in the thread.)

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    I'm NT and prefer NFs, but by a very narrow margin.
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    nice to know you care about the rest of us
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    I like SPs, too. P is actually much more important than N or F for me relationship-wise, as I'm seriously afraid a J will behave something like this:
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    Js are great for Ps... I discovered that after fearing them... they make sure that necissary things occur- for instance, they pay the bills, they remember laundry detergent and toilet paper at the store and they remember to lock the door on the way out of the house... I tend to forget practical things of that sort

    I was offended that my opinion in the poll didn't matter

    and, I hadn't said anything bitchy in 30 minutes or so! :horor:
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    Type: INtP.
    Prefers: NF's.

    Dated: ESFJ x 2, ESFP (very briefly!), INFJ, married ISFJ, INFP

    I have good NT friends and like to spend time with them. However, in a dating relationship, it helps me immensely if my partner is more the initiator on all the relational stuff... I desire a certain level of intimacy but don't have the energy to chase someone who is less relational than me to that level. The F's (and NF's in particular) fill that role adequately and give me just enough to respond to that I can initiate on my own some but still have space to be myself and we can go very deep relationally. NT's typically won't be better relationally than me at this, and usually have been worse.

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    Ok, but where is the "NT - too inexperianced to have a opinion" option ?

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    ignores the thing about not wanting the opinions of Sensors () or people in relationships ()

    I've been with 3 NFs (ENFP, ENFJ and INFP) and 2 NTs (ENTP and ENTJ)... I can't say I have a preference one way or another, as long as they're SANE (some of these people were most definitley not in that category)

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    Quote Originally Posted by whatever View Post
    Js are great for Ps... I discovered that after fearing them... they make sure that necissary things occur- for instance, they pay the bills, they remember laundry detergent and toilet paper at the store and they remember to lock the door on the way out of the house... I tend to forget practical things of that sort
    That's a great point actually. It would be great to find someone who'll remember all that stuff for me, but not actually argue with me about it.

    I was offended that my opinion in the poll didn't matter
    Oh, right. Yeah, that was pretty dickish.
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    everyone knows that ExxPs are attention whores who want to answer poll questions

    and mine doesn't argue fortunatly, he just does whatever needs to be done (I do what occurs to me, so I'm not totally useless! ) Mr. ENTJ and ENFJ both were pretty bossy about things of that sort though... not saying that all ExxJs are by any means, but those two were! :steam:
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