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  • I am an NF and I prefer NTs

    9 24.32%
  • I am an NF and I prefer NFs

    5 13.51%
  • I am an NT and I prefer NFs

    16 43.24%
  • I am an NT and I prefer NTs

    6 16.22%
  • I am an N and I prefer Ss

    1 2.70%
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    Ts are the best, Fs smell funny.



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    Quote Originally Posted by whatever View Post
    Js are great for Ps... I discovered that after fearing them... they make sure that necissary things occur- for instance, they pay the bills, they remember laundry detergent and toilet paper at the store and they remember to lock the door on the way out of the house... I tend to forget practical things of that sort
    We're also really good at pestering you about certain dates and what you'll be doing in a few hours and just being uptight nuisances in general! Ah, what a disaster it would be if I were with a P...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Max View Post
    We're also really good at pestering you about certain dates and what you'll be doing in a few hours and just being uptight nuisances in general! Ah, what a disaster it would be if I were with a P...
    I can put up with such behavior if it means that I never have to deal with paying an electric bill or figuring out my taxes again!

    I find such behavior kind of funny and endearing actually... I suppose that's evil of me
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    Me: INTP
    Dated: All NF types except INFJ. I really do think that INFJ (other things equal) would be the best fit for me. So here's lookin' at you kids!

    I've never dated an NT, but I have known both ENTP and INTP women. Not really for me. We have a blast talking, I just don't ever feel anything romantic for them. There's something about the F that does it for me. We don't always see eye to eye on everything, but who does? There's a sort of elegance to them - and it compliments my T and keeps me in check I suppose. I've said before that ENTJ could possibly work for me, as long as she didn't start trying to boss me around and stuff, cuz that aint happening honey. INTJ - not sure.
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    ENP's are the only types that have ever made me feel like a sensor.


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    Not single, but I very much like my INTP partner. We are very compatible and by now we've got most of the practical stuff worked out enough to avert real disaster or disharmony.
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    I'm starting to feel inclined to throw my hands up in the air and fold, as I have no idea who would *really* be a great match for me.

    However, I find I have the best chemistry and am most drawn to EN's, most particularly ENTP's. I have also been in relationships with an ENFP and an ENFJ. The ENFP was disarming and I think we weren't great for each other (although it could have just been an individual thing, too), the ENFJ was very comforting and I think we were dual-counselors, but I think we were too similar and it felt more like having a chummy friend than a romantic partner. I dated an ENTJ back in college and he was actually a lot of fun.

    I've dated some introverts, but I think I'm so introverted that another introvert isn't a terribly great match for both of our sakes. I haven't had anything longterm with another introvert. I'd prefer more of a complement.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Max View Post
    We're also really good at pestering you about certain dates and what you'll be doing in a few hours and just being uptight nuisances in general!
    That's kind of why I'm afraid of you guys.
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    - Have you ever dated NTs (yes/no and optionally: how many)
    Yes, quite a few, particularly one INTJ & two INTPs. I've gone out with several other NTs on first dates. Either we did not click (mutually), and/or I found them to be one or more of the following: belligerent, self-absorbed, dull, critical, and too nerdy.

    - Have you ever dated NFs (yes/no and optionally: how many)
    Yes, I went out once with an INFP, who I did not like. He was too young, immature, & self-absorbed.

    However, I have many close NF male friends who I adore. Based on this, I think I would like to date an NF man much more than an NT, but it depends on the individual.

    - Why do you prefer as you do?
    I find most NF men kinder, warmer, gentler, more personable & respectful, and all around more suited to my personality.

    However, I will date any type if I like the person. It is not a factor for me, even if I have ideals in "theory".
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    I'm an INTJ and I prefer a partner who has a vagina and is not fat.
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    T or F, I don't give a crap, but I do have a slight preference for my partner to be a stronger Fe user than Fi.

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