How exactly are these people being spoonfed and coddled? How "hard" does someone's life have to be to not be? Are you not spoonfed and coddled? You are tossing out words and they are very weak.
Everyone is somewhat coddled; like a cub who is nourished by the mother bear. People should know when to wean themselves; and so when you cling to an MBTI archetype, you are like a fetus that clings to a placenta. But this is not any coddling. It is a dissonance between the self and the actions of the self, like the child who steals candy and rebukes "The candy made me do it! It was so yummy looking!"
No, that's pretty much rock bottom, without any view of the stars.
We all lie in the gutter looking at the stars and sometimes I reach across and give Q a little tickle. She tries to stop herself from laughing by turning her eyes from the sky. But all she has to do is turn over.
Sometimes I try to give her a hint by offering her an apple turnover in the hope she might look up. But she keeps on resolutely glaring at me.
I console myself by enjoying her company in the hope that things will look up.