Complete bollocks. I spend my entire youth standing up for myself against severe and constant bullying, and it never did a damn lick of help for me. This contrived and constantly spouted "if you stand up for yourself, people won't harass you" idea is... to put it bluntly... utter bullshit.
Maybe they meant that whether standing up for yourself ameliorates the situation on the ground or not, you're probably healthier if you do it than if you don't.
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I bully people all the time...I'm bullying you right now....yes you....dick!
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