There is nothing, I repeat, NOTHING at all intellectual, in any sense, about the OP. Not that this is a bad thing- most of the threads on this board involve discussions involving matters of daily-living and relationships. But don't call it "intellectual" when it is not. I see no arguments here whatsoever.
That's like saying that we should not question the motivations of scientists simply because they are scientists (and therefore always engage in detached, unbiased inquiry.)