All the ESFJ (females I know) abhor sex and avoid it as much as possible.
I don't know any ESTP's aside from my 16yr sis and she's still to immature/socially conditioned just yet to use her in my evaluation.
The ESFP (females I know) are only hedonists in the sense that they sleep around alot more freely, but sexually still pretty traditional. They get shocked when I tell them things.
I would say ENxP ftw.