Ok to share a personal example, I have an astral twin born 2 minutes after me, in Gautamal... I know his girlfriend online because we did a class together.
Ok we had similar types of upbrining (our MBTIs don't match, although I beleive he is a rationalist not the same type).
OK with astrology when the genders are reversed it works slightly differently.
His mum died within weeks of my dad dieing (not to the day but within the same qurter)
His dad died within weeks even closer to my mum (we are talking c.4 weeks)
In the same period I was bugled 3 times and had all sorts of crime happening to and around me, he also had 2 buglaries, and had to change addess as I did in the UK.
Now those are top line, and I've not explored in huge dpeth, but this is a guy I've chatted to once for 5 minutes, I've never met him, and he lives in a very different country to me... but major life events happened close enough for me to see parralles. From your perspective they are not to the day, but from my perspective the astorlogy at the time is similar enough in transit time to be good enough to draw parallels..
As you can imagine there are plenty of ways we differ too, but big stuff seem to align