As an infp, this is what I want to become a stronger person. I am already making big improvements.
Since I am a perceiver, I can be rather scattered with my ideas and relationships. I envy people who have strong convictions, I always have. I learned this from an estp I believe. Though he may not be one hundred percent correct and though very few people would agree with him, he drilled his ideals because he believed in himself. This is not so much about ideas but relationships. I am not against one-night stands, but I want to set a clear boundary between that and a relationship. I don't admire people who fall in love ten times a year. It is terribly insincere and selfish. With ideas, esp. social and political ones, I don't want to be so stubborn as it is a good quality to be able to shift one's thinking to complement new information and new resources. But, I do want to be committed to my academics.
2) Minus sentiments.
I used to be very sentimental about everything, very emotional and just raw. Every word, every smile, every pair of great eyes, every intriguing conversation. I don't want to be like that anymore. I don't think that does anyone any good, particularly not myself.
3) Plus Positive.
I have really come to dislike negative attitudes in people, even if it's over a small thing, esp. if it's over something small, like the weather. I thrive to be more positive and thus, more resilient to the changes and critics of my environment and so, I can be more efficient and productive in dealing with everything. So this is actually about efficiency, but not logical efficiency, it's emotional efficiency, trim the fat.
How about you?