I have a harder timer getting along with ExTJ's than other types because of their natural tendency to take charge and my natural tendency to resist that, but of course that's not always the case. Ultimately, most personality traits that repel me have little or nothing to do with mbti type.
My closest friends include an istj, infj, esfp, and intp, and I have an enfj girlfriend. But I don't know if any of that has so much to with type as it does the happenstance in which we all met.
Well from what I'm beginning to see, I get along with just about anyone.
I enjoy ENFPs a ton. Its a party that I'm invited to
xNTP's seem to jump in there as well. But it just depends on the person. Some can be really cool and others can be ignorant. It just depends.
Anyone really. I can't point to a type that I don't like.
But I hug ENFPs like my life depends on it.
Originally Posted by MacGuffin
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ENTJ here. I would imagine a lot of other ENTJs have a similar "list":
I actually find I get along with and enjoy the company of NFs the most. I find we generally compliment each other well. I have just as close NT friends, but I find it's a little more hit-or-miss as to whether I really hit it off with fellow NTs - I have a very close INTP friend, but I also find that many INTPs grate on my nerves.
I find it extremely difficult to get along with ESTJs. The fact that they highly value control but also have a totally different value system than me makes them frustrating to deal with. I can get along with ESFJs, but it requires work on my end to really put effort into not getting annoyed by them.
Um, I think IRL a lot of my female friends are ENFJs, ESFPs, and ENFPs. I have a couple of INFJ female friends, too. I know some INFPs, I'm pretty sure.
Generally I like ISFPs a lot as well. ISFJs are probably the only SJ that I can consistently get along with.
I can only consciously think of being friends with a couple of ENTPs IRL out of all of the NTs, I think. On-line, though, I feel like I actually like NTJs better because they don't pester me with annoying arguments. I can't rightly think of NTJs I've known IRL, though, except this one chess player guy I liked several years ago who may have been an INTJ. I have one INTP friend, and he's like the smartest person I know.
I've found that I'm most highly likely to clash with xSTJs and ESTPs IRL.
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