To the OP: I don't think it is that simple. I was in love with someone who was bad for me and stayed with him longer than I should have. However, when I finally realized that I could not spend the rest of my life with this man for various reasons - and had serious concerns about his ability to be a good father in the future - I left him. I moved all the way across the country to get away from him, just to make sure it would be difficult for us to reconcile unless we both put effort into it. It was the best decision I ever made, though not easy at the time. F's are capable of using their Te or Ti.